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7 Moves To Up Your Blowjob Game


If you’re dating a penis-owner, chances are, they want a blow job. But what if you don’t like performing oral sex or you just don’t know what to do? Here are field-tested tips for your inspiration and experimentation. Article by resident author, Queen P.


Blowjobs just happen to be one of my all-time favorite parts of sexy time. The way you can let your partner sit back and enjoy themselves while you go to town on them, the way they indulge in the sensations while you lick every inch of them, I just eat it UP. I’ve gathered tips on how to change your mindset, some tried and true methods for sucking dick, and lots more, so let’s get to it.

Here are 7 Easy Tips to Master the Almighty Blowjob!

Change your mindset.

If you don’t like sucking dick, your partner will know it. Rather than making oral sex a “job”, try enjoying yourself while doing so. Watch your partner twist and turn in the pleasure that you’re giving them, enjoy every squirm, twitch and moan because you are the one that’s making them do it. If that doesn’t sound exciting for you, whip out your own fingers or vibrator and go to town on yourself. It’s kind of like patting your head and rubbing your stomach at the same time but way sexier.

Explore

Before you go straight to bobbing up and down on that dick, explore other areas around said cock: inner thighs, hips, stomach, booty just to name a few. Place gentle kisses on these erogenous zones to get them geared up for showtime. Rub your face on them and get to know that person whose dick you’re gonna suck. Creating buildup and tension makes a huge difference in the penis-owners experience so go slow and take your time.

Get Comfy

Finding a position that you’re comfortable in will make all the difference in your head-giving extravaganza. If you’re not comfortable, you’ll be more focused on the pain in your shoulder, neck, etc. rather than giving them the best blowjob of their life! BTW, kneeling in front of your partner is way comfier with a pillow under your knees, and laying down while they stand at the end of the bed is perfect is your feeling pillow princess-y.

Use your whole tongue.

Licking the WHOLE dick with your WHOLE tongue is actually really fun. Lick it like you would an ice cream cone, keeping your tongue flat as you glide up and then giving the tip a little flick as you finish. Bonus points for eye contact 😉 Don’t forget to make use of the underside of your tongue as well, as it’s a nice smooth area to utilize.

Switch positions + scenery.

There are plenty of positions to choose from other than the classic lay on your stomach and suck them while they’re laying on their back. Laying on your side allows you to prop your head up with one arm. Hanging your head over the side of the bed while they stand and enter you makes for a super hot view. There are also lots of other times to initiate a good blowjob rather than when you’re trying to prime the penis for P-in-V sex. The car, on a secluded hike in the woods, while they’re making dinner – the possibilities are endless! Get creative with your scenes and try to tick as many places off your daydream list as possible!

Explore deepthroating.

The technique that some love and others may hate. It’s not necessarily the feeling of deep throating that is pleasurable for penis owners, but the IDEA of it that’s super hot. If you’re wanting to master the deep throat, try using a well-lubricated silicone dildo to start. It’s the best way to practice the art of deep throat if you don’t want to use a home-grown cock. Test your gag reflex and progressively go deeper and deeper each time you practice. And remember – just breathe in through your nose and relax your throat muscles as if you were trying to brush your tongue with your toothbrush.

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Suggested reading: Prostate Slay for Newbies.

Say hello to prostate play.

Playing with the prostate is the easiest game changer when it comes to giving head. You can lick, massage and/or put pressure on the area in between the balls and the anus (aka the taint) and have your partner begging for more! Using a small vibe, like DiGiT or AMO, to stimulate the prostate is an alternative if you don’t want your face full of nuts.

Bonus Tip: Get handsy!

What if having a dick in your mouth isn’t your most favorite thing? Or if your mouth or neck is getting tired? What about if you have a hair in your mouth but don’t want to be awkward and ruin the moment to pull it out? Use your hands! Don’t feel like deep throating? Use your hands to stroke while you lick the lip. Want a toy to accompany you in your blowjob experience? Throw a DiGiT on to run over the tip and down the sides for some extra special rumbly vibes! When it comes to blowjobs, your hands are your best friends so utilize those bad boys!

Closing

With all these tips, you should have your partner cumming in no time! And don’t feel pressured to try all the tips in one run – switch it up and try techniques together, in different combos, etc. Pick the tip that works best for you and try different variations of it. There’s plenty of dick to go around so find which one you wanna suck on and go for it.

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