When we started making sex toys, we quickly learnt that our customers and reviewers are just as innovative as we are when it comes to exploring pleasure. Every week we receive emails and reviews containing their unusual sex toy tips for turbo-charging the experience with our products, usually along with suggestions for making the next versions even better.
The Queen Bee was no exception to this rule. Our versatile vibrating wand toy – our first toy aimed at customers with vulvas – has turned out to be even more versatile than we realised. And although our wand toy is the only one on the market to use patented oscillating sextech, many of the unusual sex toy tips we’ve received work for other wand toys too.
So here’s a list of our favourite suggestions for getting the most out of your vibrating wand:
1) Twin your vibrating wand with a dildo
We were proud to receive this tip from the amazing sex blogger Girl On The Net (who also writes some of our blog posts – but not this one). She was one of the first to try the Queen Bee and wrote a piece about how it introduced her to a ‘more conscious, mindful wank’. Her best trick with the Queen Bee is to apply the oscillating PulsePlate to the base of a dildo so the unusual rumbly vibrations can be felt internally as well as externally. She says: “Try the head of the toy angled just below your clit, so one end of the PulsePlate touches the clit and the other adds a little oscillation to the dildo… it’s sooo good!”.
2) Use a butt plug with your vibrating wand
One reviewer suggested using the Queen Bee paired with a butt plug, so the oscillations can again be felt internally. The ‘rapid tapping’ effect of the Queen Bee’s PulsePlate is powerful enough to transmit strong sensation through another toy. This could work with any vibrating wand, of course, although the sensation with a traditional wand vibrator will be different from that of the Queen Bee’s oscillating PulsePlate.
While the Queen Bee was designed with vulva owners in mind, this would be a great way for a penis-owner to try oscillations on the prostate – the sensitive gland that can be stimulated most directly via the anus. If you’re a fan of prostate pleasure, pairing the Queen Bee with a butt plug would be a very good way to find out if prostate-targeted oscillations are orgasmic for you. If you do try it – do let us know how it goes! And if it works and you let us know, maybe we’ll develop an internal toy that delivers the PulsePlate directly to the G- or P-spot.
3) Get a penis owner on board
One of our team members’ favourite ways of using the Queen Bee is with a partner on board, in missionary position. The oscillations of the PulsePlate on her clit are so strong that her partner can feel them on his penis when he is inside her. “It adds a new dimension to sex for us,” she says. “Simultaneous orgasms with the added oscillation for both of us certainly make for some powerful climaxes!”
4) Use a labia spreader
This is one of the most unusual sex toy tips we’ve ever had, and we loved this ingenuity from sex blogger Petra Pan. She found that her vulva shape and the Queen Bee’s head weren’t quite a match. But she happened to have a labia spreader on hand…
She said: “I put the pulse plate on my vulva, it shakes almost violently and feels heavenly; so deep and so powerful. It feels very broad and shakes my whole pussy!.. I find it hard work to hold my somewhat chubby labia open and attempt to connect the plate with my clit, so the first time I used this, I had a brainwave… thought I would use my intimate parts spreader to save my hands. I inserted the spreader and popped the plate back against my vulva, resting it on the spreader’s legs. What an amazing way to stimulate my g-spot! It literally shook the entire spreader which I felt down my labia, inside my pussy and on my g-spot. Wow!”
5) Surrender to the experience
One of our customers initially tried to use the Queen Bee as she would a wand for pinpoint stimulation. She tried but failed to get the head in ‘exactly the right place’. “Eventually,” she told us, “I realised that I don’t need to do that with an oscillating plate. I just need to set it over my clit area and let it do its work. It appeals to my submissive side. I can just lie back and surrender to the experience.”
6) Remember wand toys can be used for all genders and body types
This great tip came from sex blogger A Husband’s Passion. He said: “Let customers know that the Queen Bee can be used for pleasure on all genders and body types. As well as clitoral stimulation it can be used on nipples, scrotum, shaft, and even as a massager”.
Got any unusual sex toy tips of your own?
If you’ve got any unusual sex toy tips of your own let us know in the comments! They could be for using the Queen Bee, any vibrating wand toy, or our other products. And if you’d like to get an email when we publish new posts like this, sign up here.