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How to Explore BDSM at Any Level This Friday

This Friday marks International Fetish Day, a perfect moment to dive into BDSM exploration with your partner. Here are our recommended products to get you started!

Christmas Gifts For the BDSM Fan in Your Life
Next up in our ‘Christmas gift guide’ series we’re dealing with gifts for BDSM fans. The first in the series tackled Christmas gifts for the porn lover in your life...
Celebrate International Fetish Day - Learn BDSM & Best Free Resources
Celebrate International Fetish Day 2022 on 21st Jan; learn about the BSDSM lifestyle and all the best free resources with Hot Octopuss
World BDSM Day – History And Short-Notice Ways To Celebrate
We just found out it’s World BDSM Day. Aside from self-flagellating because we didn’t know it existed until now, we’ve also been investigating where the day came from and thinking...
BDSM Problems – When Things Don’t Go As Planned
Chances are if you’ve tried something new, whether in the dungeon or the bedroom, you’re no stranger to the above statements. In all reality, new scenes rarely go as planned....
Male Sex Toys: The BDSM Possibilities
When we say ‘BDSM sex toys’, most people’s first thoughts are of whips and chains. Bondage restraints, floggers, canes: anything that’s used to cause sexy pain or hold your submissive...
BDSM Troubleshooting – How To Be A Good Dom
Let’s be real: if you’re experimenting with BDSM, you’re going to run into problems. This is a sign that you’re learning and growing! The good news is that you’re not...
BDSM Power Exchange
True or false: you can dress like a dad, be totally monogamous, have only vanilla sex, and still be kinky AF...
BDSM Community – How To Get Involved
If you want to get involved with the BDSM community, welcome! And here’s how to get started.
How To Fetlife
FetLife is the greatest free resource on BDSM. Equal parts social network, learning platform, and dating service, Fet has created a culture of openness and celebration around the Lifestyle.
In Search Of Guilt Free Kink
What happens when your sexual desires don’t match those you were raised to believe were the ‘right’ ones? Sex blogger May More discusses guilt and kink – and how to...
Kinky Roleplay Anarchy
“If you’d like to give roleplay a try but you want something that lets you decide on the level of power exchange you want, and lets you play with gender...
Halloween BDSM: A How-To Guide
Halloween BDSM: let’s show this pandemic who’s boss!