Why does my partner never initiate and deflect?
Question: Why does my partner never initiate and deflect? A: I hear you, and a lack of intimacy, or someone never engaging or initiating, can bring on a sense of...
Advice column
Why does my partner never initiate and deflect?
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How to have better sex after 50
Question: How to have better sex after 50 Answer: My first piece of advice? You don’t have to try to recreate the sex you had at 25, 35 or even...
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Do toys permanently desensitise the penis head?
The myth that vibrators permanently desensitise the penis continues to live on, but is there actually any truth behind it?
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Taking too long to orgasm?
Taking longer to orgasm is more common than you might think. From performance pressure and masturbation habits to medication and the type of stimulation you’re receiving, there are many reasons...
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Can’t Get Out of Your Head During Sex? Here’s How to Focus on Pleasure
Question: I'm female and in my 20s, and I have trouble orgasming because I can't focus on the physical sensations and get stuck in my head—one partner said I was...
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I can orgasm on my own, but not with a partner—why?
Orgasm isn’t just about technique — it’s about context.
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I’m a 45-year-old male with a spinal cord injury. How can I ejaculate?
Question: I’m a 45-year-old male with a spinal cord injury. Because of my injury, I have a difficult time ejaculating. It’s frustrating, and I’m looking for advice that might help....
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Can using toys too much desensitise my vulva and nipples?
Question: Is it possible for the nerves around my vulva and nipples to become desensitised or start to die off from toys? A: This is such a common fear, but...
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My partner doesn't want me to pleasure him with ED but it doesn't bother me.
Question: My partner has ED. He doesn't want me to pleasure him. I told him I don't care about his ED, I still want to pleasure him, and he says...
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What your best suggestion for a 70 year old male using a masturbator?
Question: What your best suggestion for a 70 year old male using a masturbator? The key thing to remember, despite what society tells us, is that there’s no “age limit”...
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How do I restore frequent intimacy and sexual relationships with my husband of 26 years?
Question: How do I restore frequent intimacy and sexual relationships with my husband of 26 years? Restoring intimacy or keeping the spark alive after 26 years together isn’t about going...
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How do you overcome mismatched libidos?
Question: How do you overcome mismatched libidos? Is it common? A: Great question! And one of the most common concerns that couples worry about. Firstly, it's normal for partners to...
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Post stroke and supporting penile stimulation
Question: My husband is post brainstem stroke quad/hemiparesis. He has some sensation, and some spontaneous semi-stiffies, (oh and a suprapubic catheter, so that is not in the way) but trying...
