Advice column

Why does my partner never initiate and deflect?

Question: Why does my partner never initiate and deflect? A: I hear you, and a lack of intimacy, or someone never engaging or initiating, can bring on a sense of...

My husband has ED & low libido from cancer. What can we do?
Question: My husband has stage 4 prostate cancer and had a prostatectomy 10 years ago that resulted in an inability to have erections, and his anti-testosterone treatment has also severely...
Is my age affecting my erections and libido?
Question: Why do some men not get erections and lose sexual urges as they grow older with their partner? Have they lost sexual attraction to their partner or is it...
How do I get my libido back?
Question: I’ve lost my libido and have minimal sexual response left; is there any way to turn that around? My husband was always the lower-interest partner, and now we’ve almost...
I'm such a "people pleaser" even in my sex life!
Question: I'm such a "people pleaser" that even my sex life has evolved into me catering to my partner's desires and deliver fantastic results (which turns me on tbh). I've...