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Sex Only Two Or Three Times In Ten Years!



"My husband stopped having sex with me the day we got married. I am a 49-year-old woman who married an affectionate, caring man ten years ago, after living together for a year and a half. At times, he was emotionally abusive with angry episodes. Outside of those, he is physically affectionate, kissing and cuddling me — yet our marriage has been sexless other than two or three times in ten years. I feel rejected and lonely, and I crave sexual intimacy."

"Now I’m going into menopause, close to depression at wasting the end of my youth in a sexless marriage. I had a one-night stand with a friend which reminded me how much I like sex. I deeply regret cheating on my husband, but on the other hand, I feel cheated by the lack of sexual intimacy in our marriage. I’m depressed that this is my future, but if I leave, I’m afraid I will be completely alone without any kind of affection in the quest to find a compatible partner. I don’t want to grow old and die without having lived with sexual intimacy after 40."

Joan answers:

I think you know the answer. If you leave, you might or might not find what you want. If you don’t leave, you’re guaranteed not to find it! Your husband has been withholding sex for the entire decade of your marriage. You didn’t say whether you’ve been able to talk about it or gotten counselling — but clearly there’s been no resolution.

If you had known ten years ago that this would be your life, would you have married this man? There are plenty of years ahead for you to find joy, companionship, and good sex. Please don’t settle for a sexless marriage any longer. If you’re sure you want to stay, talk honestly, get counselling, and negotiate a way to open up your relationship to get your needs met with other partners, if you’re willing to do that. But if you wrote to me hoping for advice to leave this sexless marriage and find a more compatible partner, you have it.


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Joan Price

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Joan Price calls herself an advocate for ageless sexuality. She is the author of four books about sex and aging, including the award-winning Naked at Our Age: Talking Out Loud about Senior Sex and her latest: Sex after Grief: Navigating Your Sexuality After Losing Your Beloved. Her award-winning blog has been offering senior sex news, views, and sex toy reviews since 2005. At age 76, Joan continues to talk out loud about senior sex—partnered or solo. She is the co-creator of “jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex: Senior Sex”. Find Joan at https://joanprice.com.

Joan price bio shot

Joan Price

She_Her


Joan Price calls herself an advocate for ageless sexuality. She is the author of four books about sex and aging, including the award-winning Naked at Our Age: Talking Out Loud about Senior Sex and her latest: Sex after Grief: Navigating Your Sexuality After Losing Your Beloved. Her award-winning blog has been offering senior sex news, views, and sex toy reviews since 2005. At age 76, Joan continues to talk out loud about senior sex—partnered or solo. She is the co-creator of “jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex: Senior Sex”. Find Joan at https://joanprice.com.

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