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Celebrate International Fetish Day - Learn BDSM & Best Free Resou...


Celebrate International Fetish Day 2022 on 21st Jan; learn a...



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Zentai Q & A


Your questions about the weird and wonderful - answered...



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Kink Scenes – Top 3 Beginner Friendly Scenes ...


True or false: you can dress like a dad, be totally monogamous, have only vanilla sex, and still be ...



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Ask Zentai: Prostate Stimulation & KURVE...


KURVE sounds like it could be an interesting prostate massager/p-spot stimulator for guys in the sam...



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Ask Zentai: How do I come out as a chastity bottom?...


How do I make known my status as a submissive omega chastity bottom? I love being the last on the li...



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Halloween BDSM: A How-To Guide


Halloween BDSM: let’s show this pandemic who’s boss!...



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Ask Zentai: To Squirt Or Not To Squirt?...


I’d really like to help my wife squirt. How can we make this happen? Once it happens will it happen ...



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World BDSM Day – History And Short-Notice Ways To Celebrate...


We just found out it’s World BDSM Day. Aside from self-flage...



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BDSM Advice: What kind of kink can I do by myself?...


Dear Zentai - I’m single. What kind of kink can I do by myself?...



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How To BDSM – Beginner’s Guide


Shakira Scott aka Scotty Unfamous shares her tips for exploring your wild side so you can live your best kinky heaux life...



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Impact Play And Power Exchange: Older Person’s Guide To BDSM Part...


Impact Play and Power Exchange: In part three of his Senior ...



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In Search Of Guilt Free Kink


What happens when your sexual desires don’t match those you were raised to believe were the ‘right’ ones? Sex blogger May More discusses guilt and kink – and how to get over it....



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What Kind Of Guy Is Into Pegging?


Axel runs The School Of Squirt along with his partner Laura, where the pair teach how to achieve female ejaculation as part of a healthy, fulfilling and exciting sex life. Axel’s interests e...



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BDSM Community – How To Get Involved


If you want to get involved with the BDSM community, welcome! And here’s how to get started....



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Male Sex Toys: The BDSM Possibilities


When we say ‘BDSM sex toys’, most people’s first thoughts are of whips and chains. Bondage restraints, floggers, canes: anything that’s used to cause sexy pain or hold your submissive in pos...



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Christmas Gifts For the BDSM Fan in Your Life...


Next up in our ‘Christmas gift guide’ series we’re dealing with gifts for BDSM fans. The first in th...



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Kinky Roleplay Anarchy


“If you’d like to give roleplay a try but you want something that lets you decide on the level of power exchange you want, and lets you play with gender however you like, today is your lucky...



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Foot Worship


Author M. Christian breaks down one of the most popular fetishes: foot worship. From boots to heels to bare feet, and from pedicures to BDSM scenes, this article covers it all. Want tips on ...



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BDSM Communication: Older Person’s Guide to BDSM, Part 2...


Older person’s guide to BDSM, Part 2 – Author M. Christian advises on communication and bondage for ...



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How To Get Started With Kink


Whether you’ve had kinky fantasies as far back as you can remember or you just want to try something new, everyone’s got to start somewhere when it comes to exploring their darker desires. B...



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How To Fetlife


FetLife is the greatest free resource on BDSM. Equal parts social network, learning platform, and dating service, Fet has created a culture of openness and celebration around the Lifestyle....



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Secretary Movie Review


Long before 50 Shades of Grey there was Secretary, the 2002 film based on a short story written by Mary Gaitskill in 1988. And yes, the main character’s name is Mr. Grey. Nineteen years and...



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BDSM Power Exchange


True or false: you can dress like a dad, be totally monogamous, have only vanilla sex, and still be kinky AF......



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Coffee & Kink – Sex Blogging Saved My Soul...


Being a member of a gender or sexual minority can be a lonely place. Most of us are raised with the ...



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BDSM Troubleshooting – How To Be A Good Dom...


Let’s be real: if you’re experimenting with BDSM, you’re going to run into problems. This is a sign ...



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BDSM Problems – When Things Don’t Go As Planned...


Chances are if you’ve tried something new, whether in the dungeon or the bedroom, you’re no stranger...



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Zentai Bio


Zentai is an agender, submissive switch who specializes in extreme play. This is their biography. Say hello and ask a question....



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Getting Started With BDSM: Older Person’s Guide...


Author M. Christian delves into how BDSM can become an enjoyable part of anyone’s sexual activities,...



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How To Be Sexually Confident With Scotty Unfamous And Madam Storm...


Meet MSSS, the sexual happiness experts, learn some tips on ...



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